Sunday, 1 August 2010
I meet many people because I go out of my way to get into conversations with people. My wife Irene continually makes comment about this. It was only last Friday evening we went out for an ale with my son and daughter-in-law. At one point she asked me if there was anybody in the place I did not know as one after another fellow customers came over to speak to us.
I was not always like this. My mother frequently gave me a ticking off for walking with my head bowed. I was extremely shy, and to some extent still am, but life has taught me how to compensate by being extrovert. Does that make any sense?
Another turning point for me was the examination. We had a lecturer at university who came in as an extra to assist us to become both pastors and preachers. She helped us with how to deliver sermons and the correct use of the voice. How I wished I had listened more to her on that topic. She also offered advice in reading body language and how to be a caring pastor.
One day she set us an examination, about the third day I met her I think. The examination was mostly on general knowledge. This did not concern me, I was always interested in what was happening. Throughout the paper there were what seemed, very odd questions. What is the first name of the curator? What is the name of the lady who each days vacuums the carpets in the students lounge?
At the end of the examination I asked her if those four questions were to be taken as part of the grade mark. "Absolutely," she said. "In your chosen profession, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello'." "I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy, and later I learned the names of all the cleaners and curators.
What a lesson indeed. Before you ask, I do know the names of all the people who follow my blog although one or two names are harder than others to remember. Nothing really I used to know the first names of every member of my congregations. One of whom, Ena, now aged 94 called me yesterday just for a chat.
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